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---------------------- Forwarded by Judy Hernandez/HOU/ECT on 02/03/2000
11:29 AM --------------------------- Judy Hernandez on 02/03/2000 11:24:24 AM To: SUHERNAN@LLGM.COM cc: Subject: FW: FW: For all my women friends( ---------------------- Forwarded by Judy Hernandez/HOU/ECT on 02/03/2000 11:23 AM --------------------------- From: Andrea R Guillen 01/19/2000 11:08 AM Sent by: Andrea R Guillen To: Maria Sandoval/HOU/ECT@ECT, Melissa Rodriguez/HOU/ECT@ECT, Elizabeth Soto/HOU/ECT@ECT, Cecilia Olvera/HOU/ECT@ECT, Melba Lozano/HOU/ECT@ECT, Pamela Sonnier/HOU/ECT@ECT, Phenicia Olivier/HOU/ECT@ECT, Rosa Jaramillo/ENRON_DEVELOPMENT@ENRON_DEVELOPMENT, Kori Loibl/HOU/ECT@ECT, Cassandra S Dutton/HOU/ECT@ECT, Hannah Ortiz/HOU/ECT@ECT, Chantelle Villanueva/HOU/ECT@ECT, Alisha Guerrero/HOU/ECT@ECT, Judy Hernandez/HOU/ECT@ECT, iguillen@aglife.com cc: Subject: FW: FW: For all my women friends( ---------------------- Forwarded by Andrea R Guillen/HOU/ECT on 01/19/2000 11:06 AM --------------------------- Margaret Smith <margaret_smith@anadarko.COM< on 01/19/2000 10:40:58 AM To: "'Adam'" <funken@getus.com<, Andrea R Guillen/HOU/ECT@ECT, "'Bill'" <WRSmith6@email.msn.com<, "'Charlene'" <Cbellows@Farouk.com<, "'David C'" <rsi_railroad@getus.com<, "'Doug'" <douglaspena@hotmail.com<, "'Glenn'" <GlennReev@aol.com<, "'Gloria'" <gmclissold@duke-energy.com<, "'Imo Gene'" <peacock3@altavista.com<, "'Laura'" <lgarza@jcpenney.com<, "'Lisa'" <Lmrpizza@aol.com<, "'Mykel'" <mykelanne@hotmail.com<, "'Olivia'" <oliviar@hmi.net<, "'Paula'" <paula@firstclasslimo.com<, "'Ruth'" <rufinita@aol.com<, "'Stephani'" <donsteph@flash.net<, April Leger <aal001@DOMESTIC.EXCH.ANADARKO.com<, Dianna Bailey <DJBAPC@DOMESTIC.EXCH.ANADARKO.com<, Dayna Dryden <DCREXP@DOMESTIC.EXCH.ANADARKO.com<, Janet Price <jkpexp@DOMESTIC.EXCH.ANADARKO.com<, Beth Friend <EAFEXP@DOMESTIC.EXCH.ANADARKO.com<, Velma Birks <VBILAN@DOMESTIC.EXCH.ANADARKO.com<, Vickie Tonn <vlt001@DOMESTIC.EXCH.ANADARKO.com< cc: Subject: FW: FW: For all my women friends( < << From a woman who works in a police department: < << < << < << I have to share some things I have learned in my job < << with you. < << < << In my job, I review criminal and psychiatric files of < << imprisoned sex offenders who are approaching their < << release date. I decide if they are likely to re-offend < << based on certain criteria and then civilly commit them < << to a sex offender treatment facility if I decide that < << they are at significant risk to re-offend < << < << I have read hundreds and hundreds of files, and have < << taken note of some of the mistakes women make. Let me < << preface this by saying that a woman is NEVER EVER EVER < << at fault for being raped or attacked, but there are < << definitely ways to reduce your risk of being a victim. < << < << Here are the most common mistakes women make that < << could result in them getting kidnapped, attacked, < << and/or raped: < << < << 1. Getting into the attacker's car when he pulls a < << gun and orders you to get into his vehicle. < << < << Most attackers don't want to shoot you ... they want < << you to get into the car so that they can drive you to < << a deserted place and torture you. Don't comply. Run < << screaming. It is MUCH more likely than not that he < << will just move on to an easier target. < << < << 2. Pulling over when a man drives alongside of you < << pointing at your car pretending something is wrong. < << < << If this happens, drive to the nearest well-lit and < << populated gas station and look the car over yourself < << (or ask an attendant). Never pull over. Believe it < << or not, many women have fallen for this for fear of < << their car spontaneously exploding in the middle of the < << road. Not likely. < << < << 3. Not locking your doors while driving. < << < << I have read several cases where the attacker simply < << walks up to a woman's car while she's at a traffic < << light and jumps in with his gun or knife drawn. < << < << 4. Opening your front door when you have not < << positively identified who is there. < << < << If you don't have a peep hole, get one. I've seen < << countless cases where the attacker gains access to his < << victims simply by knocking on their door. < << < << Don't let an attacker get into your home. He then has < << a private, relatively soundproof place to attack you. < << < << 5. Not being alert in parking lots. < << < << If you go to the grocery store at night, don't be shy < << about asking for an escort to your car. Too many < << women are abducted from parking lots or even raped in < << the parking lot. < << < << Look in your back seat before entering your car. Cars < << provide endless hiding places for attackers, both < << inside them and in between them. < << < << Be aware of your surroundings by looking to the left < << and right and behind you with your head up all the < << time. You may appear paranoid and look funny to < << others, but an attacker will think twice about < << approaching someone who appears so aware of what's < << going on. < << < << 6. Trusting a clean cut, honest looking stranger. < << < << I see mug shots of every sex offender in the state of < << Florida. They do not look like monsters. They often < << look like they could be your friendly grocer, bank < << teller, waiter, neighbor, clergy, doctor, etc. They < << are every age between 15 and 90, and probably beyond. < << Only a small minority actually look scary. < << < << I just read a case yesterday of a man with only one < << leg who beat up his victim with his crutch before he < << raped her. Who would have ever thought that a < << one-legged man could be a rapist? < << < << 7. Trusting people to be alone with your children. < << < << This is a difficult one, because child molesters end < << up being the LAST person the parents would believe is < << the molester. < << < << Most of the child molesting cases I see involve the < << stepfather, the uncle, the sister's boyfriend, the < << mother's boyfriend, the grandfather, the baby-sitter, < << the neighbor, the family friend, the youth camp < << director, day care worker, etc. Although rare, even < << women can be molesters. < << < << In every case, the perpetrator is a nice guy, < << trusting, good with children, and the family is < << baffled or even in disbelief that the person could be < << abusing their child. < << < << When it comes to your children and grandchildren, be < << suspicious of everyone, no matter who they are. And < << pay attention to what your child says and how he/she < << reacts to the mention of different people in their < << lives. < << < << I didn't mean to make anyone uncomfortable with this, < << but I am at work right now reviewing files, and < << realized that this email is a way I can reach many < << women at one time. I have the dirty job of reading < << all these files, and it makes me feel good to know < << that I can share some inferences from what I have < << learned. This is not an exhaustive list of what not < << to do, but just some things that I have observed more < << than just a few times. < << < << Pass this on to the women in your lives < < < < < < < < < < < < < < < <
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